BILA SHADI BURHI HUJANY WALI LARKIYON KO NASIHET

BILA SHADI BURHI HUJANY WALI LARKIYON KO NASIHET

Question :
Mai ap sy aik aisy masley k bary mai deryaft kerna chahti hoon jo mery aur mery jaisi dosri larkiyn sy muta'aliq hai, woh yh k Allah Ta'ala ny hamary muqadar mai bagair shadi k rehna likh dia hai, jab hum shadi ki umer sy guzer ker mayosi ki dehleez per jaa bethi hain, is haqiqat k bawajood k hum bahamdulillah ikhlakiyat k a'ala mukaam per faiz hain aur university ki satah tak ta'aleem yafta hain magar hamara muqadar yahi hai. madi pehlu aik aisa pehlu hai jo kisi ko hum shadi kerny ki tergeeb nahi daita Qk shadi k mamlaat khas tour per hamary mulk mai mustaqbil mai ronuma huny waly halat k aitbar sy mian bivi ki mushrkat per inhesar kerty hain. barah-e-karam meri aur mery jaisi deegar behnu ki rehnumai farmain aur humain nasihet sy nawazain.
Answer :
Shadi sy mehrom reh jany wali orat ko meri nasihat hai jaisa k saila ny ishara kia hai k woh gir gira ker, ajiz-o-inkisar k sath bargaah elahi mai ilteja karen k woh aisy mardo ko in ka muqadar banay jin k deen aur ikhlaq ko woh pasand kerta hu. insan jab sadaq dil sy Allah Ta'ala ki taraf mutawajja hu, dua k adaab ko malkhut rakhty huway qaboliyat dua ki rokawato ko dour ker k dua mangy to aisy logo k bary mai woh farmata hai:

"aur jab mery ap sy mery muta'aliq deryaft karen to (bata dijeye k) mai bohat qareeb hoon, jab koi pukarny wala mujhy pukarta hai to mai iski dua qabool kerta hoon. logo ko chaheye k woh mery aihkaam qabool karen aur mujh per emaan layen ta k woh hadayat paa jayen."
Al bakra 2: 186.
Naiz farmaya:

"aur tumhary Rab ny farmaya: tum mujhey pukaro mai tumhari dua qabool karonga."
almomin 40:60.
Jab banda Allah Ta'ala ki taraf sy yaqeen-o-emaan ki dolat sy mala maal hu ker mutawjajjah hu to Allah Ta'ala iski dua ko sharf qaboliyat sy nawazta hai. mai dua kerny , tawajjah il'lallah rakhny, is k hazoor ajiz-o-inkesar paish kerny aur kushadgi ka intezar kerny sy barh ker kisi cheez ko taqatwer nahi samjhta.
Nabi (S.A.W) ny farmaya:

"Jaan lo yaqinan na pasandedah cheezon per kerny mai bohat sy khair-o-bhalai hai aur beshak madad sabar k sath, khushali bad haali k sath aur asani tangi k sath hai."
Masnad Ahmed: 1/308.
Mai Allah RAb-ul-Ezzat sy in k liye aisy naik mardo ka intezam farmai jo deen-o-dunia ki bhalai ki khatir in ka intekhab karen. Wallah A'alim Shaikh ibn Usaimin